Majlis Pertunangan Brunei: Balasan berian pihak perempuan

Assalamualaikum beautiful reader,

Sebelum bertunang, I did some research apa barang-barang yang akan dibagi ke pihak lelaki. Payah memikirkan apa kan di bagi walaupun a few gangsa saja. Some articles that I found on the web suggested a few items yang aku rasa kurang munasabah like potpourri and bunga rampai (Hmmmm...untuk buat apa bagi potpurri and bunga rampai???)

Initially I planned to give 5 gangsa ke pihak lelaki as Mr. Tunang-to-be informed me durang kan membagi dalam 3 atau 5 gangsa. On the E-day, my parents added another 2 gangsa. Semua sekali from my side ada 7 gangsa, while hantaran pihak lelaki ada 5 gangsa. 

Here are what I've decided to give him on our E-day:

1. 3 pasang baju cara Melayu with stud and kain sarong 
(Nazmi Textile Mall & Kofom Textile. Price: Unavailable)

I've bought all the items on separate occasions tapi still making sure the colours of baju, kain sarong and stud sepadan atau bersesuaian. I purchased kain cara melayu and kain sarong di Nazmi textile Mall, and studs beli di Kofom Textile. 

Kain baju cara melayu di hantar tarus ke tailor favorite Mr-Tunang-to-be. The idea of membagi persalinan lengkap ane came from my parents and my aunt, kata durang "biar complete membagi"/ "sempurna sikit membalas...". 



Suggestion: Boleh bagi baju kemeja keraja complete with tie and pants. Atau kalau jenis yang suka sports, maybe boleh bagi baju sports. Atau boleh jua hadiahkan pakaian untuk solat macam baju jubah dan songkok. Ikut preference masing-masing heeee...

2. Cake Pertunangan 
(the famous Mr. Baker's Fruit cake: $80)

Most articles yang berkaitan dengan pemberian majlis pertunangan ada mentioned cakes atau hidangan manisan sebagai hantaran/ balasan hantaran pertunangan. So, I booked Mr.Baker's fruit cake. It is arguably the best cake in town. I would recommend this cake so much to anyone and for any occasion, pasal it's really-really-really nyaman. It has two flavors: Vanilla and custard. I like both!!  



3. Cupcakes including perhiasan and delivery 
 (FB/IG: Taste on Tray. Price: $125)

I never book any cakes or cupcakes from online seller 'Taste on Tray'. Terjumpa nama 'Taste on Tray' masa blog-hopping untuk mencari-cari idea hantaran pertunangan. I checked her Facebook account, banyak sudah orang buat tempahan cakes and cupcakes for special occasions from this seller. Ada yang buat cake bertingkat-tingkat lagi hehe... 

Alhamdulilah, this seller inda menghampakan. I described to her what I want for my engagement cupcakes; I want it to be simple roses in 2 or 3 colours. Sekali the seller sendiri yang offered if cupcakes atu mau tarus di decorate in a clear box. Hasilnya seperti yang dalam gambar di bawah. All decorated by the seller herself, and ia sendiri delivered to my place. Total price charged was $125. It includes 25 pieces of cupcakes, decoration and delivery charges. I'm quite satisfied with her service.   



4. Buah-buahan 
(Super Save & Supa Save. Price: Unavailable)

Basket tempat menyimpan buah-buahan, perhiasan and wrapping plastic dibeli dari kadai Super Save.  Nda ku pasti berapa the total price of semua barang pembelian ane as it was all bought in separate occasions. 

Buah-buahan nya is a mixed of local and non-local fruits. Ada some buah-buahan ane di sponsor oleh my bungsu jua such as buah nenas and starfruits kalau inda salah. Yang lain-lain bebali di Supa Save Mabohai on the day of the engagement itself, mau jua fresh-fresh banar hehe... 


5. Assorted Chocolates 
(Hua Ho Manggis & Sri Azlina Madang. Price: Unavailable)

Seperti yang biskita lihat di gambar, chocolate untuk balasan hantaran pertunangan ada macam-macam jenis like Ferrero Roche, Lindt, Toblerone dan lain-lain. My parents bought all these chocolates di Sri Azlinaz, Madang and Hua Ho Manggis. 



I think my parents went sedikit overboard membali chocolates, pasal I remember Dhiya Aleesya (tempat kami mengubah hantaran) inda menghabiskan semua chocolate atu untuk disimpan di gangsa. Otherwise it will be overcrowded jua 😅 

6. Buku Permintaan 
(N.P Copies. Total Price: $5)

I made 2 copies of the permintaan hantaran: satu untuk di bagi ke pihak lelaki and another one untuk di simpan by pihak perempuan. I share how to draft dokumen majlis pertunangan in Dokumen Permintaan Majlis Pertunangan entry.

Untuk buku permintaan, you can get the cheapest one from N.P. copy for $2.50 each. Everywhere else was around $5 - $20. My mom DIY buku permintaan atu supaya inda terlampau plain.  



7. Cincin Pertunangan
(Price: Unavailable)

Nada pasti la kalau pihak perempuan mesti bagi cincin pertunangan ke pihak lelaki, but my family prepared it anyway. Masa hari bertunang aku baru tau yang my family beli cincin tunang for him too. Thank you, family! 💖💖💖 Alhamdulilah the ring fits him nicely...




Hantaran pertunangan pihak lelaki 

Sebelum menutupi entry ane, I will briefly share hantaran pertunangan pihak lelaki. Prices and dimana durang bali is unavailable to me though. But I believe kalau hantaran pertunangan untuk perempuan ane sanang sikit di cari atau di pikir-pikirkan hehe...

So, these are hantaran gangsa prepared by the male side.

1. Sebetuk Cincin & Duit Pembuka mulut

2. Sebentuk Cincin & Duit Tanda Pertunangan

3. Assorted Chocolates

4. Kain

5. Handbag



Akhir kata, di harap post ane dapat membantu biskita mencari-cari sedikit idea untuk majlis pertunangan nanti. 

Thank you for reading. 

Toodles ^^

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